Faithfulness, Stubbornness, and Knowing When to Keep Going
What Habakkuk 2:3 and Galatians 6:9 do—and do not—tell us about persistence when we believe God has given us something to do
One of the more difficult questions in Christian discernment is what to do when we believe God has given us something to accomplish, but we repeatedly encounter resistance.
Should resistance make us more determined because faithfulness requires perseverance? Or should resistance make us reconsider whether we mistook our own idea for a mandate from God?
Scripture certainly teaches perseverance. But it does not teach that every project we sincerely believe God wants us to undertake must therefore be pursued until it succeeds.
The Question Behind the Question
The dilemma can be stated this way:
There is no simple biblical rule saying:
Moses, Jeremiah, Paul, and Jesus all encountered resistance while faithfully doing what God had called them to do.
But neither does Scripture give us the opposite rule:
That principle can become dangerous because it makes our own conviction nearly impossible to correct.
What Habakkuk 2:3 Actually Says
Habakkuk is sometimes quoted as though God were giving a general principle about our personal visions, ministries, projects, or plans:
For the vision is yet for the appointed time, and it hurries toward the end, and won’t prove false. Though it takes time, wait for it, because it will surely come. It won’t delay.
Habakkuk 2:3, WEB
But the context matters greatly.
Habakkuk is not trying to determine whether one of his own initiatives will eventually bear fruit. He has received a revelation from God concerning judgment, injustice, Babylon, and the eventual vindication of God's purposes.
Habakkuk has complained about evil in Judah. God responds that the Chaldeans are coming. Habakkuk then protests that the proposed remedy seems worse than the original problem.
He waits for God's answer.
God then tells him that the vision has an appointed time and will be fulfilled.
That is quite different from saying:
Habakkuk 2:3 gives strong grounds for trusting what God has truly promised. It does not automatically authenticate everything we identify as our own God-given vision.
What Galatians 6:9 Actually Promises
Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up.
Galatians 6:9, WEB
This is also a powerful call to perseverance.
Paul is telling Christians not to become tired of doing good. The surrounding passage speaks about sowing to the Spirit and doing good to others, especially to fellow believers.
But there is an important distinction between:
and:
The first is Paul's teaching. The second requires discernment.
The Mandate and the Method Are Not the Same Thing
This may be one of the most useful distinctions to make.
We may correctly discern something God cares about while incorrectly assuming that our preferred way of accomplishing it is also mandated by God.
A Christian may be deeply convinced that God desires:
- Christian unity,
- evangelization,
- disciple-making,
- care for the poor,
- reconciliation,
- justice,
- teaching,
- hospitality,
- or some other clearly biblical good.
That does not necessarily mean that one particular committee, ministry, program, institution, website, meeting, proposal, or plan is God's required means of accomplishing that good.
Paul Sometimes Persisted—and Sometimes Changed Direction
The book of Acts gives us a useful counterbalance to the assumption that every obstacle should simply be pushed through.
When they had gone through the region of Phrygia and Galatia, they were forbidden by the Holy Spirit to speak the word in Asia. When they had come opposite Mysia, they tried to go into Bithynia, but the Spirit didn’t allow them.
Acts 16:6–7, WEB
Paul unquestionably had a mandate to preach the Gospel.
Yet that did not mean:
The mission remained. The route changed.
That is an important model for discernment.
Resistance Is Information, Not an Automatic Verdict
Resistance can mean many things.
Sometimes resistance is simply the predictable difficulty of doing worthwhile work.
Sometimes resistance comes from people who genuinely oppose what is good.
Sometimes resistance exposes weaknesses in our strategy.
Sometimes other people know something we do not.
Sometimes timing is wrong.
Sometimes we are trying to control an outcome that belongs to God.
Sometimes a closed path may redirect us toward another way of pursuing the same underlying calling.
The Danger of Making Our Conviction Unfalsifiable
There is a particular spiritual danger in becoming completely certain that a personal plan is God's mandate.
If we reach that point, every contrary circumstance can be reinterpreted as proof that we must try harder.
A closed door becomes a test. Criticism becomes persecution. Delay becomes proof that Habakkuk 2:3 applies. Exhaustion becomes evidence that Galatians 6:9 requires greater persistence.
Eventually nothing can cause us to reconsider our interpretation.
That is not discernment.
James Adds Another Necessary Test
So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for the anger of man doesn’t produce the righteousness of God.
James 1:19–20, WEB
When resistance frustrates us, it is particularly important to listen.
Anger can make us feel more certain. It can persuade us that urgency justifies pressure. It can make opposition appear morally simpler than it really is.
James reminds us that even anger arising in connection with something we believe is righteous should still be examined.
Psalm 139 Gives Us a Posture for Discernment
Search me, God, and know my heart.
Try me, and know my thoughts.
See if there is any wicked way in me,
and lead me in the everlasting way.
Psalm 139:23–24, WEB
This may be one of the safest prayers to bring to any perceived calling.
It allows us to remain committed without becoming closed to correction.
We can say:
Father, I believe this matters.
But I also know that believing something strongly does not make my interpretation infallible.
Search me.
A Better Set of Questions
Instead of asking only:
Should I keep going or give up?
it may be better to ask several smaller questions:
- What part of this calling is clearly grounded in Scripture?
- What part is my interpretation?
- What part is merely my preferred strategy?
- What outcome am I trying to control?
- What have I learned from the resistance?
- Is there another way to pursue the same underlying good?
- Am I still listening to people who disagree with me?
- Has frustration made me less charitable or less teachable?
- Would I recognize a legitimate reason to change direction if one appeared?
Faithfulness and Stubbornness Can Look Similar
From the outside, faithfulness and stubbornness sometimes look almost identical.
Both can continue despite difficulty.
The difference may lie partly in whether we remain teachable.
Faithfulness holds tightly to what God has clearly revealed and more loosely to our own plans for implementing it.
A Prayer for Discernment and Perseverance
Father, you know the things I believe you have placed on my heart. You know which convictions come from a genuine desire to serve you, and you also know where my own preferences, ambitions, impatience, fears, and frustrations have become mixed into them.
You told Habakkuk that the vision you had given him had an appointed time. Help me trust what you have truly promised without treating every idea of mine as though it carried the same certainty.
Your Word tells me not to grow weary in doing good. Give me endurance where endurance is required. Do not let difficulty, delay, disappointment, or resistance make me abandon something merely because faithfulness has become costly.
But Father, teach me the difference between persevering in good and stubbornly insisting on my own method.
Help me distinguish the mission from the strategy. Show me what you have actually asked of me and what I have added myself.
When a path closes, keep me from immediately assuming either that I must force it open or that I must abandon the calling. Give me wisdom to ask whether you may be redirecting me, as you redirected Paul when he intended to go one way and you led him another.
Make me quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger. When resistance frustrates me, do not allow my anger to masquerade as certainty.
Give me courage to listen carefully to people who disagree with me. Help me hear what they actually say rather than what I expect them to say. If they see something I do not see, make me teachable enough to receive it.
Search me, Father, and know my heart. Examine my motives. Show me where I am seeking your kingdom and where I may simply be seeking the success of my own plan.
If I am becoming stubborn, correct me. If I am becoming discouraged when I should persevere, strengthen me. If my timing is wrong, teach me patience. If my method is wrong, help me change it. If the work belongs to someone else, help me release it. If there is something I truly must do, give me the courage to do it.
I do not need to control the outcome. I want to be faithful with what is actually mine to do.
Trusting you with what I cannot accomplish, help me recognize the next faithful step and take it.
In Jesus' name. Amen.
A Short Prayer to Return To
Father, what have you actually asked of me, and what have I added myself?
Make me stubborn about what is truly yours and flexible about the methods that are mine.
Do not let resistance make me quit merely because something is difficult. Do not let persistence convince me that I must have interpreted you correctly.
Teach me the difference between faithfulness and stubbornness.
Search me, correct me, direct me, and show me the next faithful thing.
Amen.